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The 2nd sign that a man is ready for marriage

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Do you know that money is necessary for life, here on Earth? Poverty at home is never God's Will for any family. If that happens, It is 100% possible that the head (breadwinner) is NOT doing something right. Perhaps he is sleeping. Verily, it is easier for children to go to their dad for money, and go to their mom for food than the other way round. They naturally know (by God's design) that "Daddy is our financial sponsor" and "Mommy is our meal maker." Money (Material Ability) is the 2nd sign of a man's marital readiness . There are TWO groups of properties in Marriage - Gifts (Automatic/Less Effort properties) and Rewards (Manual/Great Effort properties). Even though gifts such as intercourse, children, love, life, food, etc may come automatically or with less effort in marriage, it requires great unrelenting efforts mainly on the part of the man to meet his family responsibilities (especially with finance) in order to have rewards suc...

The 1st sign that a man is ready to marry. What every good wife expects in her man before and in marriage

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In these times where many people are rushing to get married or to marry, Three things are secret to a successful marriage on the part of men which they must have power over the women: The first is Knowledge - Every man must have more knowledge in various matters of life and home, than the wife. This makes a wife feel so proud to see her husband as her source of guide, advice, decision, answers and suggestions...and even help her complete her work/projects assignments. Therefore, in spite of all else, the good man wants his wife to see him above her in knowledge, and thus wants the wife to seek him always for advice, guide, direction and assistance. The good man is pissed off when he sees or hears the wife bypassed him to seek guide, advice and direction from outside. The good man is the first priest, father, friend and Counselor to his wife and home. And he wants the wife to acknowledge him for that. And even teach the children to honour their dad in that. This is very important ...