The 1st sign that a man is ready to marry. What every good wife expects in her man before and in marriage
In these times where many people are rushing to get married or to marry, Three things are secret to a successful marriage on the part of men which they must have power over the women:
The first is Knowledge - Every man must have more knowledge in various matters of life and home, than the wife. This makes a wife feel so proud to see her husband as her source of guide, advice, decision, answers and suggestions...and even help her complete her work/projects assignments. Therefore, in spite of all else, the good man wants his wife to see him above her in knowledge, and thus wants the wife to seek him always for advice, guide, direction and assistance. The good man is pissed off when he sees or hears the wife bypassed him to seek guide, advice and direction from outside. The good man is the first priest, father, friend and Counselor to his wife and home. And he wants the wife to acknowledge him for that. And even teach the children to honour their dad in that. This is very important to the man. By this, the wife ought to protect and cover-up her husband before the world, to let the world know how happy and proud she is about her husband, and that she would do everything for the world to see and know that her husband is educated, knowledgeable and wise! The wife must never show either before the man or before others that she knows more than her husband...but instead lowers herself before her husband...
Blessed is the wife who knows this 1st secret. And the man feels so proud of the wife when she values his knowledge ability.
In view of this necessity, it is something every man must commit himself to achieve. The man should be decisive, bold, and well-informed in knowledge, because it will not only make his wife proud of him; but also their children will feel confident to have such a great dad to whom they can go for knowledge guide and ask questions and be well answered. NB: A well-informed husband wins the trust of both wife and children... As the wife is proud to comment, "That's my husband!", the child will remark, "That's my dad!" Because a well-informed man can play well with his wife and children.
Therefore, to know that you are ready to marry, ask yourself "How much do I know, how well can I give my wife and children the knowledge support, How good am I in decision making; how well can I play with my wife and/or children?"
If answers to these is a GREEN CARD then you are good to go! But not now... Wait for the remaining 2 signs...
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Ernest Frimpong Jnr (Little Ernest)

Great! I love this piece! Thanks a lot for sharing
ReplyDeleteMarvelous, that's very pure and clean. An empty headed man is a shame to his family.
ReplyDeleteWonderful, great piece daddy. More grace and wisdom.
ReplyDeleteThis is awesome, very deep and inspiring...
ReplyDeleteGod bless you
ReplyDeleteGod bless you Pastor
ReplyDeleteSo beautiful...
ReplyDeletePowerful ✊thank you Pastor for this wonderful gift
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